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No bots. No automated responses. If you reach out to Man on the Moon, you hear back from Julian or Alfred directly.

Whether you want to know if MOTM is right for you, have a question about the cohort, or just want to understand what you are signing up for before you commit just ask.

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Common questions.

If yours is not answered here, send it through the form above.

Is this course really just for men?

Yes. MOTM is built specifically for men. The content, the community, the framing. All of it. Women do not need to be told what they experience. Men do. That is the gap this course was built to close.

I don't know if my relationship is serious enough to justify this.

If you are spending time with a woman and you care about how you show up for her, it is serious enough. MOTM is not just for husbands. It is for any man who wants to stop guessing and start understanding.

What if I'm embarrassed to admit I need this?

Every man in MOTM started from the same place. The course exists because nobody taught us this. Not school, not our dads, not anyone. There is nothing to be embarrassed about. There is only the choice to stay where you are or do something about it.

How does the cohort work?

MOTM runs over six weeks. Each week you work through one module at your own pace. The material is pre-recorded so you can watch it whenever suits you. If you want to move faster and do all six modules in a shorter window, you can. Once you are in, the access is yours for life.

Each week there is also a live call with Julian and Alfred where you can ask anything. No question is off limits. This is where most men say the real breakthroughs happen.

Every cohort also gets its own WhatsApp group, what we call the Blood Brothers. A private space for the men in your cohort to support each other through the course and beyond. The conversations that happen in there are ones most men have never had anywhere else.

What is the free guide?

Before you commit to the course, we want to give you something useful right now. The free guide is a one-page breakdown of the female cycle. What is actually happening in each phase, why it matters, and three things you can do immediately to show up better. No fluff. Just the starting point, on one page. Download it and see if it lands.

Can I gift this course to someone?

Yes, partners can absolutely gift this to their partner. Please message us directly about this.

I've tried to talk to her about this stuff before and it went badly. Will this actually help?

Yes. Because the problem was never the conversation. It was that you did not have the knowledge to back it up. MOTM gives you that. When you understand what is actually happening in her cycle, the conversations change. Not because you say different words, but because you mean something different when you say them.

Still on the fence? Start with the map.

One page. Free. The female cycle, explained plainly, with three things you can start doing now.